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Can you suggest a way to start off conversations with customers, difficult, angry or otherwise?

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angry customers on the phone - learn to shut them up.How you begin an interaction with a customer often determines whether the conversation deteriorates into an unpleasant situation where the customer targets you for abuse, or whether the conversation goes much more smoothly. A good beginning can cut off aggression at the path from an angry or difficult customer. Here's how:

Whether you deal with customers in person or on the phone, the way yuo begin a conversation or interaction will affect how the customer treats you. You know what they say -- first impressions are hard to change. Compare the way that you begin customer interactions with our suggested inclusions.

An effective greeting includes:

appropriate nonverbal behavior
eye contact posture
that indicates interest
appropriate tone of voice
friendly
calm

Generating Rapport - When a client approaches you, your greeting should be short and to the point. But sometimes, it is more appropriate to spend a bit of time in conversation before getting down to business. .....spend a minute or two asking questions or talking on subjects other than the reason you are there. The purpose is to establish a form of relationship with the individual, or to recognize that a relationship already exists.

Using Names - People like to hear their own names. Likewise, they like to know your name. The use of names helps both parties see each other as real people, and as unique individuals. When possible you want to use the person's name as early as you can. You probably want to give your name, if that is appropriate.

Further help with starting off customer interactions on the right foot is available in Defusing Hostile Customers Workbook, on which this article is based upon.

Robert Bacal is the author of two books on customer service: Perfect Phrases for Customer Service: Hundreds of Tools, Techniques, and Scripts for Handling Any Situation, and Defusing Hostile Customers Workbook. Most of the questions and answers in the Customer Service Knowledgebase (which you are reading now) is based on the material in these books.


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