Can you suggest a way to start off conversations with customers, difficult, angry or otherwise?

How you start a customer conversation often dictates how well it goes

Can you suggest a way to start off conversations with customers, difficult, angry or otherwise?

How you begin an interaction with a customer often determines whether the conversation deteriorates into an unpleasant situation where the customer targets you for abuse, or whether the conversation goes much more smoothly. A good beginning can cut off aggression at the path from an angry or difficult customer. Here’s how:

Whether you deal with customers in person or on the phone, the way you begin a conversation or interaction will affect how the customer treats you. You know what they say — first impressions are hard to change. Compare the way that you begin customer interactions with our suggested inclusions.

    • An effective greeting includes:
  • appropriate nonverbal behavior
  • eye contact posture
  • that indicates interest
  • appropriate tone of voice
  • friendly
  • calm

Generating Rapport – When a client approaches you, your greeting should be short and to the point. But sometimes, it is more appropriate to spend a bit of time in conversation before getting down to business. …..spend a minute or two asking questions or talking on subjects other than the reason you are there. The purpose is to establish a form of relationship with the individual, or to recognize that a relationship already exists.

Using Names – People like to hear their own names. Likewise, they like to know your name. The use of names helps both parties see each other as real people, and as unique individuals. When possible you want to use the person’s name as early as you can. You probably want to give your name, if that is appropriate.

Further help with starting off customer interactions on the right foot is available in Defusing Hostile Customers Workbook, on which this article is based upon.

Author: Robert Bacal

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